Spot the Warning Signs of Romance Scams

Roses are red, violets are blue. Your valentine might be scamming you!

Romance scammers try to take advantage of those looking for a connection online, lying about their identity to steal money and information. Protect yourself from romance scammers by looking out for these red flags:

• They won’t meet face-to-face. Romance scammers often have excuses for why they can’t meet you in person, like they work construction outside the U.S. or are serving in the military overseas.
  
  
• They need money urgently. Romance scammers may say they need money for medical expenses, unexpected legal fees, plane tickets to see you or any number of reasons that force you to act NOW.
  
  
• They want you to invest. Scammers may also encourage you to invest in cryptocurrency or a bogus up-and-coming technology or business.
  
  
• The conversation seems scripted or impersonal. Artificial Intelligence (AI) can be used to create realistic images, voices and even videos to make you think they’re a real person – but they also often use the same formulas for several people. If you feel like your conversations seem scripted or vague, it’s a definite red flag. 
  
  
• They ask for strange methods of payment. Common payment method requests include gift card numbers, cryptocurrency or wire transfer.
  
  
• The person seems too perfect. Scammers will most likely study your online profiles to figure out what you’d like most in a partner. They can use AI to create photos of your ideal match – or even your favorite celebrity.
  
  
• They want to communicate over text or email instead of through the dating app. If you meet someone online and one of the first things they do is suggest moving your conversation to email or text, that’s a major red flag. Getting ahold of your email and phone number makes you that much easier to scam.
  

Remember: you should never send money or personal information to someone you don’t know through the internet or over the phone.

If you think that you’ve encountered a romance scammer, you should block that person and report them to the dating app or social media site. If believe you are the victim of a romance scam, don’t hesitate to contact CoreFirst Bank & Trust and report the scam with the Federal Trade Commission at 1-877-382-4357 or www.ftc.gov.